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Sderot to Surat; A Sad Happy Story

Sderot to Surat; A Sad Happy Story

by Jerry Waxman

In 2008 I gave up a pretty good job and nice place to live to come to Israel. Sderot was my choice because kassams were scaring people away. We can't all act scared. We do what we can to defy those who would tell us to leave our land.


I guess my determination to have some impact here didn't work out too well. For two years I looked for a way just to make a living. Still alive, so things didn't work out too badly.


This will be my last Shabbat in Sderot for a while. I finally found a job in a town called Surat. It's not in Israel. It's in Thailand.


It has been hard to reconcile this part of the journey. I got a post office box to retain some kind of presence in Israel. I'm leaving much of my belongings here. My sites are continuously on returning. I believe I will, before too long. What would I do with this website outside of Israel?

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Negev Desert, Israel

That's all I have to say for now. Will continue to post to this site from Thailand. Anyone that wants to come there, drop us a note.

Make this life an adventure.
Keep a smile on your face and dance in your feet.

Secrets Behind The New Passover Haggadah; A Love Story; Part One

Lone Soldier Meets Yemenite Clan
by Jerry Waxman

I was a chayal boded in the IDF; a lone soldier. No family in Israel, none at all. Not even any friends or acquaintences. When I made aliya in the early 1980's I really burnt the bridges with my American past. Who knows why, exactly? Something was burning inside me to be a part of Israel. That's why I got myself drafted into a combat unit in the Israeli army within months after making aliya.

I barely understood Hebrew. My background in Jewishness was limited to having attended high holiday services and family seders while growing up. I knew practically nothing of Israel's history at the time I entered the army.

Being a lone soldier has its challenges. But it also has advantages. My commanders released me almost every Shabbat, and almost every holiday. The owners of a local grocery store began to take interest in this curiousity that came into their store every Friday, just before closing time. Come to think of it, I was the only American in uniform around, maybe the first one for that neighborhood.

One day, the store owners informed me that I was coming to their home for the Pesach seder. They didn't ask me, or invite me, they informed me. It was pre-ordained. Of course I had no problem with the arrangement. As a lone soldier, I looked forward to the chance to talk with the owners' sister. Or sisters, for they had quite a few of them.

[A side story: While the above and following events were taking place, a small child in a remote village in a northern province of Thailand was just beginning a relationship with the world. The child would one day have an impact on the course of many Jewish lives. Find out more when you buy the Andaman Haggadah for your Pesach Seder.]

Nisan 14 came around, and I found myself on a moshav in the Negev. All the moshav members, including the store owners, were Yemenite Jews. That morning, some neighbors were gathered to make matzo, which felt more like pita than like a cracker. They had fashioned an oven outside specifically for the purpose. They also roasted meat outside, to be used for the evening meal.

Was this the beginning of a new adventure? Or was it a re-acquaintence with an old adventure? I did not feel out of place at all. This is what Jews have always done, and some part of me has always been part of it.
The Andaman Haggadah in English delivers the passion and meaning of being Jewish. Customers who have read the Andaman Haggadah have commented on how the plain English and simple explanations, along with the exciting images make this their Haggadah of choice for their Passover Seders. Inspired by the story you are reading now, there really is a love story behind the Andaman Haggadah. Get this beautiful English Passover Haggadah now! . Download it today. Print as many as you need. No extra charge, ever. Unannounced bonuses apply.

Secrets Behind The New Passover Haggadah; A Love Story Continues

Secrets Behind The New Passover Haggadah; A Love Story; Part Two

Ancient Customs, New Awakenings
by Jerry Waxman

When the Yemenites brought their traditions to Israel, they brought the ways of their ancestors extending back thousands of years to the time of the Babylonian exile. They let me help make matzo. They let me help prepare for the seder. They brought me to synagogue, and helped me find my way through the prayer service.

The prayer service was like none I had ever seen before. The men sat around the sides of the room, chanting in unison, some without even looking in a book. Any one of them could have led the service, but one chose to be the chazan for that evening.

The whole seder was such an amazing experience, I no longer felt like a lone soldier. I was part of a vast family - a nation of tribes - with its customs and traditions rooted in the events of over 3300 years ago; our exodus from slavery in Egypt.

An Authentic Pesach Seder

Seder means "order." There is an order in which we do things at the Passover seder. All Jews, no matter what nationality, follow the same order. The Yemenites have basically the same Haggadah as Ashkenazis and Sephardis. Still the seder on the moshav was so dissimilar to our family seders in America, it was hard to think of them both as celebrating the same holiday.

We sat on cushions on the floor. Everyone was relaxed and jovial. Everyone understood the meanings of what was read, what was said, and what was sung. We leaned way way over to drink wine and to eat matzo. The seder meal became a play; a re-enactment of historic events to delight the children and entertain the adults.
[A side story: The story you are reading is true, though the sequence of events has been changed for effect. Meanwhile, in a remote village in Thailand, a little girl was starting out in life. She would one day be the leading inspiration for the Andaman Haggadah. Find out more when you buy the Andaman Haggadah for your Pesach Seder.]
There was food, wine, song, and laughter. And as we sat on the floor, I could imagine that this is how we were at our first seders in the wilderness, recalling the signs and wonders we had witnessed, and the parting of the Red Sea. We were there then. We were there again at our present day seder.

Even though I was more interested in the young women than in Jewish custom at the time, from that day on, I was hooked on the Jewish part of my Jewish heritage. I wish every Jew could experience what I had experienced at that time. The spark of inspiration for an English Haggadah was ignited.


The Andaman Haggadah in English delivers the passion and meaning of being Jewish. Customers who have read the Andaman Haggadah have commented on how the plain English and simple explanations, along with the exciting images make this their Haggadah of choice for their Passover Seders. Inspired by the story you are reading now, there really is a love story behind the Andaman Haggadah. Get this beautiful English Passover Haggadah now! . Download it today. Print as many as you need. No extra charge, ever. Unannounced bonuses apply.

Secrets Behind The New Passover Haggadah; A Love Story Continues

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